Tips for Caregivers

Helping someone includes helping them help themselves.

The best thing you can do for someone recovering from a physical setback is to encourage them to be independent.

Do not do things for others that they can do for themselves. As the helper, encourage them to try doing some of their daily living activities on their own. You can make it more possible by providing set-ups for the activities.

For bathing, prepare in advance:

  • use a non-skid mat

  • provide a shower bench

  • have water already drawn

  • have towels ready, with one placed on a chair for the person to sit on

  • pre-measure shampoo

  • provide a hand-held shower hose

For dressing:

  • offer only two choices of clothing outfits

  • display against a clearly distinct background for easy viewing

  • provide shoes with support that slip on and off easily

  • provide a chair with armrests for the person's use while dressing

  • provide dressing sticks, long handled shoe horns, sock aides and leather loops on zippers

For eating:

  • offer finger foods or sandwiches in small portions

  • use bowls or a plate with a rim

  • use silverware/spoons with large handles

  • assist as necessary, such as to cut food into bite sized pieces

For fluids:

  • measure liquids into a four ounces glass

  • encourage frequent sips

  • provide their favorite liquids but try to limit carbonated and caffeine drinks

For transfers:

  • have the person sit near the edge of the bed or chair

  • have the person lean forward and do short push-ups to come to a standing position

  • assist the person by standing on the weak side and placing your hand under their weak arm or grasp the person's belt to steady them

For walking:

  • provide a cane with a safety tip

  • prompt them to take only short steps

  • prompt them to move forward with their strong foot first

University of Kansas Medical Center, Center on Aging Kansas Advocates for Better Care